Celebrating Life with Generosity

Ervin TanFeature

80-year-old James in a candid moment at his birthday party, where he insisted guests do not bring gifts but instead donate to the Catholic Foundation. Photo: James and Catherine

Celebrating Life with Generosity

When James Tan Swan Jeng decided to celebrate his 80th birthday by throwing a party for his family and friends, he made it clear that he did not want them to bring him any gifts. Instead, he told his guests that he would appreciate donations to the Catholic Foundation.


With permission from Msgr Philip Heng (Vicar General, Finance and Administration), James included an appeal letter from the Foundation with invitation cards to the birthday party.

“Well, I am a Catholic myself, and I see that the archdiocese needs a lot of money. Our archbishop will surely have a hard time. If we can contribute, even just a little, we should.”

On 10 August 2017, over 300 friends and family members came. Even amongst those who were not able to attend, many still donated generously. James was pleasantly surprised that this simple gesture managed to raise $43,000 for the Church.

Looking back at the 80 years of his life, it is clear to see that James’ belief and support of the Church stems from a gratitude he holds for how God has blessed him.


Blessings in Life

During his childhood, James came close to death twice. Even though he was not a Catholic then, in hindsight he believes that it was only by the grace of God that he had survived.

His first experience occurred during World War ll, when Singapore came under attack. James would typically hide under his bed during the air raids. But on one particular occasion, he followed everybody else to the bomb shelters. “This time, our house took a direct hit and the bomb would have killed my entire family had we chosen to remain in the house,” he said.

His second near-death encounter involved a severe Malaria infection when James travelled to Riau lslands, Indonesia, in 1943. He recounted, “There were no medical facilities around. Most patients would have succumbed to the disease, but miraculously, I recovered. I believe the good Lord let me live.”

After the war, James took his “O” Level Examination, and believes it was the grace of God that allowed him to do well. This paved the way for him to land a job at a firm where he stayed for over 40 years – his entire working life.

It was through this firm that he was also blessed with the opportunity to travel to London to be trained as a Chartered Accountant. There, he met his wife, Catherine, through whom he discovered the Catholic faith.

“He attended catechesis at St James Church and got baptised there. He was very sweet, he said he would become a Catholic so that we could go to Church together and raise the children as Catholics,” Catherine recalled.

James and Catherine at St James Church, London, on their wedding day, in 1964. Photo: James and Catherine


Being Grateful

James is now a member of the Parish Finance Council at the Church of St Bernadette. However, he still feels that he has not done enough.

Sharing similar sentiments, Catherine said, “l think most important of all is that we need to thank God for all our blessings. I only pray for good health, and thank God for it, so that we can look after our family, and of course to continue doing what we can for the Church.”

For James and Catherine, who have gone through 53 years of life together, gratitude is the key to being able to live a fulfilled life. They hope that young Catholics today may be able to appreciate God’s blessings and find such joy.

“l think it is really difficult for young Catholics today. Life is so stressful and busy, like a pressure cooker. It is so easy to be distracted from the things that really matter in life. I pray that despite this, young people everywhere may still be able to recognise how God blesses them, and to always have gratitude in their hearts,” said James.

Lovingly holding hands, James and Catherine greet guests at his 80th birthday party. Photo: James and Catherine

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